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10 Things Not to Say to an HSP Who Is Grieving
Grief, HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT Grief, HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT

10 Things Not to Say to an HSP Who Is Grieving

The best way to support someone in the immediate throes of grief, or the long-term pangs of loss, is to hold space for them to experience their feelings to the fullest. The more you try to take the pain away, the more you may be (unintentionally) hurtful. If you’re trying to comfort someone in grief right now, here are some tips to keep in mind.

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Beachside Counseling is now Therapy for Highly Sensitive People
HSPs, About Therapy Christine Tomasello, LMFT HSPs, About Therapy Christine Tomasello, LMFT

Beachside Counseling is now Therapy for Highly Sensitive People

Therapy for Highly Sensitive People is a therapy space that helps HSPs cope with common life challenges. HSPs have a hard time finding a therapist who understands high sensitivity - working with a therapist who doesn't get it can exacerbate the shame and brokenness HSPs already tend to feel. We're here to help HSPs embrace the gifts of their sensitivities and learn to love their tender souls.

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Hygge: An HSP's Secret to Surviving the Colder Months
HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT

Hygge: An HSP's Secret to Surviving the Colder Months

The changing of the seasons usually means fewer outdoor activities, less socializing, and more time spent cooped up at home by yourself, with your partner, or with your family. If you're a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), the increased time at home might be both good and bad. A lot of HSPs are introverts and this season offers a natural time of rest and rejuvenation. And, as an HSP you're also likely highly sensitive to your environment.

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What Does It Mean To Be A Highly Sensitive Person?
HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT

What Does It Mean To Be A Highly Sensitive Person?

A highly sensitive person or HSP is an individual who feels overwhelmed or experiences heightened responses to stimuli. This is often a heightened emotional reaction to everyday situations and events. What does that really mean? Many HSPs go through life feeling overwhelmed or like there’s something wrong with them. They think that responding differently means that people just don’t understand them. It can feel very lonely and isolating, and many HSPs try to disguise or repress their responses in order to fit in.

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Grief May Look Different if You’re a Highly Sensitive Person
Grief, HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT Grief, HSPs Christine Tomasello, LMFT

Grief May Look Different if You’re a Highly Sensitive Person

Grief is not something anyone enjoys. It is a difficult, painful process. Whether you are experiencing bereavement, the specific kind of grief related to the loss of a loved one who has passed away, or grief following another type of loss, allowing yourself to mourn and come to terms with the loss is essential. This can be especially true for someone who is considered a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP). HSPs are people who feel things more deeply, experience a stronger connection with their emotions, or need more time to process feelings. When HSPs are working through grief and loss, they may have a different experience compared with people who are not highly sensitive. In this blog, we’ll talk a bit about how grief can impact HSPs differently and what they should keep in mind when navigating the grief process.

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